singles and couples

i just realized something..

when you are in a relationship and you are with the person you are in that relationship with, you either hang with him/her inclusively, or you hang with other couples.. a circle of couples and singles will always create awkward moments or unsatisfying whines (either from singles or couples; there may be noises coming from both sides, go figure)

even when the circle consists of both singles and couples, the couples will still try to maintain the one to one ratio of boys and girls.. it just never works out when you realized that you are in a group of couples while you are single or vice versa, awkward needless to say..

i couldnt help but to wonder: is it a social constraint for single people to conform to couples by a certain age? when we were little, as far as i know, growing up in a family with chinese traditions and backgrounds, dating at an early age was considered almost a forbidden act.. when though, shall we progress from that ancient view to a more modern approach? shall we consider the beginning of our university/college lives being a brand new millennium for the freedom of dating? what exactly happened when we entered that 20-something boundary?

yet again, i realize that this only applies to a certain group of people with certain backgrounds.. and im just being wordy for the sake of it..

2 Replies to “singles and couples”

  1. OMG and she was like, "He’s so cute" and I was like, "OMG! No way!" and she was like, "Yes way!" and then I was like, "Really?!?!?!" and then she was like, "Yeah! Really!!!" and then I was like, "Awww…" and she was like, "Let’s go get some Nachos" and I was like, "Like Ew!!!" So she got mad at me because I didn’t like her idea of Nachos and I was like, "I am so not talking to you anymore" and I was like, "Fine, be that way"

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